子贡对老师的尊敬与爱戴众所周知,但孔子并不喜欢他,甚至可以说是很讨厌他。子贡之所以不讨孔子喜欢,大概有一点就是他太过偏激。孔子的品性追求有五个字:温、良、恭、俭、让。一言以蔽之,约莫就是中庸了。正如叔孙武叔诽谤孔子时子贡回敬他的:他贤如丘陵而可逾,夫子如日月不可逾。这比喻确然可以接受,孔子高度他人无可企及,可他后来又来了一句:多见其不知量也!他这 Zi Gong tribute to the teacher’s respect and love is well known, but Confucius did not like him, or even hate him. The reason why Zi Gong does not like Confucius like, probably one thing is that he is too extreme. Confucius’s pursuit of character has five words: warm, good, Christine, frugal, let. In a nutshell, about is moderate. As uncle Wu Shu slander Confucius Shi Gong tribute to him: he Yin as hills and more, the Master Sun Moon inflaguable. This metaphor is indeed acceptable, Confucius high degree of unaffordable to others, but he later came again: more than its unknowable also! He