我是一名农村小学音乐老师,每次带学生去市里参赛,在比赛过程中总感觉农村的孩子不如城里的孩子那么有气质。这并不是农村孩子的技能有多差,而是由于自信不足产生的一种畏惧心理,在与人交谈、自我展示时就有点羞涩、拘谨,影响了正常水平的发挥。农村孩子缺乏自信与疼爱和家庭教育有相当大的关系!认识到这一点后,我决定首先要在平时的音乐教学中多给他们以关爱、理解,鼓励、逐步树立农村学生的 I am a rural primary school music teacher, each time with students to the city competition, in the course of the game always felt that children in rural areas than the children of the city so temperament. This is not how poor rural children’s skills, but because of lack of self-confidence caused by a fear, talking with people, self-display a bit shy, cautious, affecting the normal level of play. The lack of self-confidence and love of rural children has a considerable relationship with family education. After realizing this, I decided to give them priority in the usual teaching of music to care for, understand and encourage the gradual establishment of rural students