女儿的成长需要“对手”——这是我从女儿喜欢吃别人家的饭这件事上悟出来的。以前,为了女儿能够吃顿饱饭,我们夫妻俩或诱或哄、或恐或吓,都未能奏效。好像女儿明白,现在都是独生子女,你疼还疼不过来呢,能把我怎么样?所以,常常能够见到这样的无奈场面:我在一边端着碗,丈夫拿勺,追着女儿喂饭吃;女儿呢,吃一口,玩一会,悠闲得很,似乎觉得做父母的挺好玩,她在和爸爸妈妈进行藏猫猫的游戏哩。后来,不耐烦了,索性饿她一 The growth of a daughter needs an “opponent” - this is what I learned from my daughter’s love of having someone else’s house. In the past, in order for her daughter to have enough to eat, the couple or lure or coax, fear or scare, have failed to work. It seems like her daughter understands that she is all only child now, can you still feel pain and pain? How can you treat me? So often I can see this helpless scene: I am holding a bowl while my husband is holding a spoon and chasing daughter Eat food; daughter it, eat, play for a while, leisurely, seems to feel very fun for parents, she and mom and dad playing cats game miles. Later, impatient, simply hungry for her one