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望子成龙是所有父母的共同心愿,于是便极力为孩子选择奋斗方向。让孩子学钢琴、学画画……五花八门,无所不有。然而,就其效果来看,的确微乎其微。 究其原因,除了艺术本身的精深,使之不易达到登峰造极的地步外,更重要的则是普遍存在的一种牛不喝水强按头的现象所造成。孩子所学门类,往往不是孩子的选择,而是家长的一厢情愿。家长认为钢琴这东西高雅,不让
Succeeding is the common aspiration of all parents, so they strive for the child to choose the direction of struggle. Let the children learn the piano, learn to draw ... ... all kinds of things, everything. However, in terms of its effect, it is indeed minimal. The reason, in addition to the art itself is so sophisticated, making it difficult to reach the peak of progress, the more important is the ubiquitous phenomenon of a cow does not drink strong by the head caused. Children learn categories, often not a child’s choice, but parents wishful thinking. Parents think the thing is elegant piano, do not let