问:8年前,我妻子离家学习烹饪,结业后留在城里当厨师,干了几年以后又自立门户开了家小餐馆。为了照顾父母和孩子,又放不下那十来亩责任田,我一直留在农村。几年来,妻子的餐馆生意不错,挣了一些钱,家里的生活越来越富裕。但我发现妻子变了,不但穿着讲究起来,而且还描眉画眼抹嘴唇。最让我看不惯的是,她还学会了抽烟喝酒,回家的次数也比过去少了。古语说,女为悦己者容,我担心她在外面勾搭上了不三不四的男人,乡亲们也有不少闲话。我想让她回乡,又怕关了餐馆再过穷日子;继续让她干吧,又真怕她抛下这个家另寻新欢。咋办呢?请你给我出出主意。答:虽说你对妻子的猜疑不是没有一点缘由,但依我看八成还是你过虑了。 Q: Eight years ago, my wife left home to study cooking. After graduation, I stayed in the city as a chef. After a few years, I opened my own eatery on my own. In order to take care of parents and children, they can not let go of that ten acres of responsibility, I have been in the countryside. Over the years, his wife’s restaurant business is good, earn some money, more and more affluent life at home. But I found my wife changed, not only dressed to pay attention, but also Miamei painted eyes wiping his lips. Most let me not understand is that she also learned to smoke and drink, go home less frequently than before. As the old saying goes, "For the sake of my dear ones, I am worried that she is hooked up to a man who has no problems in the outside. There are many folks in the villagers. I want her home, afraid of closing the restaurant again poor day; continue to let her do it, I’m afraid she left this home looking for a new love. What should we do? Please give me out ideas. A: Although your suspicion about your wife is not without any reason, I think you are worried about it.