暗示真的是一把双刃剑。一味地指责和批评差点让儿子真的像孙猴子那样眨眼睛,而积极地鼓励和表扬这么快就使儿子改掉了毛病。最近一段时间,我猛然发现儿子老是不停地眨眼睛,像孙猴子一样。开始以为儿子眼里进了什么脏东西,可我检查了两三次一切都正常。为了使孩子尽快改掉这个坏毛病,在每天接送儿子的路上,我都不住地叮嘱:“要注意卫生,别用脏手揉眼睛。眼睛揉坏了,像孙猴子一样不停地眨眼可不好看!”每当我这样说时,儿子都认真地看着我,点点头说:“妈妈,我记住了!” Hint is really a double-edged sword. Blindly accusing and criticizing almost let his son blink his eyes like a monkey, and actively encouraging and praising him so quickly to get rid of his son. Recently, I suddenly found his son always kept blinking, like a monkey. I started to think what son into the eyes of what dirty things, but I checked two or three times everything is normal. In order to make the child get rid of this bad thing as soon as possible, on the way to pick up my son every day, I do not constantly told: “Pay attention to hygiene, do not rub dirty eyes dirty eyes rubbed bad, like Sun monkey kept blinking Good looking! ”Whenever I say that, my son looked at me seriously and nodded and said,“ Mom, I remember! ”