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大人要看到“坏行为”背后的心理需求,将“坏小孩”的行为往善意的方向引。傍晚,带闺女在小游乐场玩,一岁八个月的她虽然是第一次玩儿,但她特兴奋。当发现有个小滑梯时,她毫不犹豫地要爬上去。没想到,一个男孩堵在上面,特别蛮横地说:“你给我起开,这是我的房子,谁都不许碰。”他不光说,还快速上手猛推女儿。我家奶奶很生气地对那个男孩子说:“我们怎么不能玩儿啊?!”小男孩理直气壮:“就是不行!”我在外面怒从心头起。
Adults should see the psychological needs behind “bad behavior” and lead the behavior of “bad child” toward goodwill. Evening, with her daughter play in a small playground, one year and eight months of her although she is the first time to play, but she was excited. When he found a small slide, she did not hesitate to climb up. Unexpectedly, a boy stuck in the above, particularly arrogant to say: “You give me away, this is my house, no one allowed to touch. ” He not only said, but also quickly swiftly push her daughter. My grandmother said very angrily to the boy: “How can we not play ?! ” Little boy confidently: “I can not! ” I am out of my heart from the heart.