很多年轻的妈妈常常有这样的困惑:孩子长到三四岁,想让他独自睡觉,可是怎么也不成功。孩子每次都答应得好好的,可一到睡觉时就犹豫,一会儿让妈妈先陪一会儿,一会儿又要喝水……好不容易睡着了,有的孩子到了半夜,或者过来找大人,要求在大人床上睡觉:或者自己醒来就哭,妈妈们没办法,只有再和孩子一块儿睡。甚至有些孩子一和大人同睡就特高兴,有的到了半夜还会爬起来,看看自己是否还在大人的床上,然后才会踏实睡去。孩子在独自睡觉时的心理是怎样的,大人又该如何培养孩子独自睡觉的习惯呢?这成了许多年轻父母所关心的问题。 Many young mothers often have such confusion: children grow to three or four years old, want him to sleep alone, but how not successful. The child promised well each time, hesitated to go to bed, while for a while to accompany her mother for a while, and then drink water ... ... finally fell asleep, and some children to midnight, or to find adults, asking Bed to sleep in adults: or woke up to cry, moms no way, only to sleep with their children again. Even some children are particularly happy to be asleep with their grown-ups, and some will climb up again in the middle of the night to see if they are still in their adult’s bed before going to sleep. How does the child’s psychology when sleeping alone, how does the adult cultivate the child’s habit of sleeping alone? This has become a concern for many young parents.