本文主要针对目前存在的较为普遍的家庭教育现象——家长漠视孩子的人格,教育孩子过程中缺乏必要的尊重,由此导致对培养孩子健全人格的极大影响,尤其是对于上小班的幼儿来说,更是如此。因此,本文主要从真诚的表扬、学会理解、创设良好的家庭氛围、不随意对幼儿发脾气等几个方面,来阐述家长该如何真正地尊重孩子,以促使他们身心健康地成长。 This article focuses on the more common phenomenon of family education at present. Parents ignore the personality of their children and lack the necessary respect in the process of educating their children. As a result, it has great influence on cultivating children’s healthy personality, especially for children in small classes That is even more true. Therefore, this article mainly expounds parents how to truly respect their children in order to promote their physical and mental growth from the aspects of sincere compliment, learning to understand, creating a good family atmosphere, not feeling free from the temper of children.