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1.爱的需要到底什么是爱呢?爱是容忍、慈祥、不嫉妒、不夸张、不自大、不动怒,凡事包容,凡事相信,凡事盼望。心理学家认为,孩子最需要的爱就是无条件的爱。孩子最害怕的就是被遗弃与遗忘。对孩子来说,母亲的爱是无条件的包容,这种无条件的爱会使人感受到很深的安全感。人一旦有了安全感,自信、淡定、自在的感觉就会油然产生,这样,人才能勇敢地冒险,不怕艰苦。这种爱的需要是人类最基本的需要。
1. Love needs in the end what is love? Love is tolerant, kind, jealous, not exaggerated, not arrogant, not angry, everything inclusive, everything is believed, everything hopes. Psychologists believe that the love most needed by children is unconditional love. Children are most afraid of being abandoned and forgotten. For children, mother’s love is unconditional tolerance, this unconditional love will make people feel a deep sense of security. Once people have a sense of security, self-confidence, calm, feel comfortable spontaneously, so that people can bravely take risks, not afraid of hardship. The need for such love is the most basic need of mankind.