人的精神天地通常受制于三种状态:常限,底限,极限。日常工作,生活起居,同事亲朋之间,左邻右舍相处,无非朝九晚五、一地鸡毛;家长里短、满天浮云。可以相敬如宾,也可以嘻戏调笑,甚或绊个嘴,嚼个舌,唧唧咕咕骂回娘,都算不上多大件事,沟通也在常限之内,只要情商正常,无人不可从容应对。底限的边界稍宽,并且因人而异。性格涵养不同,性别年纪不等,阅历境遇不一,底 People’s spiritual world is usually subject to three states: the limit, limit, limit. Daily work, living in daily life, colleague relatives and friends, neighbors, nothing more than nine to five, one feather; parents in the short, sky clouds. Can be respectable, you can laugh or laugh, or even stumble, chewing a tongue, cursing cursed back to the mother, are not big deal, communication is also within the limits, as long as the normal emotional intelligence, no one can not calmly deal with . The margin of the margin is slightly wider and varies from person to person. Different personality traits, gender, age, experience different experience at the end