家长对孩子影响的重要性，是众所周知的。素质不良的家长，必然成为孩子的反面教员，这是有目共睹的社会现象，也是一般家长都知道的。问题在于一些素质较好的家长，也难免会在无意中做了不好的示范，成为孩子的反面教员。这是家庭教育中的一种现象，值得大家深思与警惕。下面 The importance of parents to their children is well known. Parents of poor quality are bound to be children’s opposite teachers. This is a well-known social phenomenon that ordinary parents all know. The problem is that some parents with better qualities will inevitably do a bad demonstration inadvertently and become the opposite teacher of a child. This is a phenomenon in family education and it is worth pondering and vigilance. the following