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表扬孩子是家长在教子过程中非常必要和有效的手段。有不少家长认为,只要孩子表现好就应给予表扬,这样可以激发孩子的积极性,培养良好的行为习惯。实际上并非完全如此。研究表明:表扬并不是在任何情况下都有积极的心理效应,使用不当就达不到预期的效果,甚至会产生消极的心理效应。对孩子过多地表扬,可能会使孩子产生依赖心理;而不必要的表扬,或时机和方法不当的表扬,则会削弱孩子的内在学习动力。
Praise of children is a very necessary and effective means for parents to teach their children. Many parents think that as long as the children perform well they should be commended, so that they can stimulate their enthusiasm and develop good habits. This is not exactly true. The research shows that praise is not a positive psychological effect under any circumstance. Improper use can not achieve expected results and even negative psychological effects. Excessive compliment of children may make the child dependent psychology, and unnecessary praise, improper timing and method of praise will weaken children’s intrinsic motivation to learn.