儿童的不服从行为主要包括四层含义：一是儿童对父母的命令表现出不服从；二是儿童在教育情境中拒绝接受父母的建议；三是儿童对父母的建议和要求采取不合作的态度：四是在儿童早期，儿童拒绝做出符合父母理想的行为，同时又不抑制或停止某个不合乎父母理想的行为。在实际的生 Children’s disobedience mainly includes the following four meanings: First, children show disobedience to their parents ’orders; second, they refuse to accept their parents’ suggestions in their educational situations; Third, they adopt an attitude of non-cooperation with parents on their advice and demands : Fourth, in early childhood, children refuse to act in line with their parents’ ideals, while they do not inhibit or stop something that does not meet the ideal of their parents. In actual life