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分析:这是许多家庭常出现的场景。斥责是家长在孩子出现不当行为时常用的一种负面强化方法。有些家长在斥责孩子时经常使用训斥、讥讽甚至威胁的语言,并伴有冷漠的、严厉的语气和盛气凌人的架式。殊不知,这种斥责往往会给孩子的发展带来负面影响。1.影响孩子独立性的发展在家长看来,斥责孩子是为了管教孩子,而管教孩子就是为了让孩子听话。因此,经常强迫孩子照家长的话去做,否则,就给予斥责。这很容易使孩子变得被动、依赖,遇
Analysis: This is often the scene of many families. Rebuking is a negative reinforcement that parents often use when their children have misconduct. Some parents often use reproach, ridicule and even threatening language when scolding their children, accompanied by indifference, harsh tone and domineering style. As everyone knows, this kind of reprimand tends to have a negative impact on children’s development. 1. Affect the development of children’s independence In the eyes of parents, reprimands the children in order to discipline the children, and disciplines the children just to let the children obey. Therefore, often forced children to do according to the words of parents, otherwise, to reprimand. It is easy to make children become passive, dependent, encounter