俗话说:“马善被人骑,人善被人欺”。其中蕴含着朴素的生活哲理。假设用社会心理学的理论来审视,它反映了人际关系中的一种普遍规律,即别人如何对待你,是由你自己决定的。你对待别人的态度、你的行为风格是引起别人对待你的特定态度和特定行为反应的原因(即刺激);别人的 As the saying goes: “Ma Shan was riding, good people were bullied.” Which contains a simple lifestyle philosophy. Assuming the theory of social psychology to look at, it reflects a universal law in relationships, that is, how others treat you, and it is up to you. Your attitude toward others, your style of behavior is the cause (ie, stimulus) that causes others to react to your particular attitude and behavior, and others