“上得厅堂,下得厨房”这是我到上海后接触上海男人时听得最多的一句话,他们总是这样夸奖自己的妻子。通过这句话,我深深地体会到中国男女的平等,这和韩国比起来有着很大的差别。 很多中国人一知道我是韩国人就会问:“韩国女性为什么结了婚就不工作呢？”或是“听说韩国男性是大男子主义,那你丈夫怎么样”这些问题使我很尴尬,因为很难用一两句话来回答。 “On the hall, under the kitchen ” This is the one I heard most when I came into contact with Shanghai men in Shanghai, they always praise their wives. Through these words, I deeply understand the equality of men and women in China, which is very different from South Korea in comparison. Many Chinese people will ask as soon as they know I am Korean: “Why do Korean women not work when they get married?” Or “I heard that Korean men are macho, what about your husband?” I am very embarrassed, because it is difficult to answer with one or two sentences.