在教学工作中,我发现:有的学生上课变得不专心听讲,变得爱打扮,喜欢看言情小说,课上课下经常写情书,周末经常成对出入,学习成绩明显下降……这表明学生出现了早恋问题。有人说:“早恋是一朵带刺的玫瑰,我们很容易被它的芳香所吸引,但又被它无情的刺伤。”早恋问题也是令初中教师头疼的事,处理得好这种男女之间的爱慕就可以转化为进步和学习的动力,处理的不好就会 In the teaching work, I found that: some students became less attentive in class, became loving to dress, like to read romance novels, often write love letters in class, often go in pairs in the weekends, and their academic performance dropped significantly. This shows that students Appears puppy love problem. Some people say: “puppy love is a barbed rose, we are easily attracted by its aroma, but it was ruthlessly stabbed.” "Puppy love problem is also a headache for junior high school students to deal with this kind of man and woman Between the love can be transformed into the driving force for progress and learning, will not handle well