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2005年的这个夏天,欧陆足坛刮起了球星成婚之风,克雷斯波、托蒂、皮耶罗、赞布罗塔、欧文一干人等纷纷走进了婚姻殿堂。他们手挽着自己心爱的女人,满脸幸福,只是全然不知他们已经踏入了婚姻围城。看着这么多球星们纷纷往婚姻迷宫里面扎堆,不知过来人贝克汉姆、罗纳尔多等人是怎么想的。过来人自有过来人的明白之处,却也有过来人的不得已,有的仍在迷宫里面晃荡,有的却找到了迷宫出口,急欲逃离,也有的却玩起了“闯迷宫”的游戏。借用钱钟书老先生的比喻:婚姻就像是一座围城,在里头的人想出来,在外面的人却想进去。在名和利上都不同于常人的球星们的婚姻也是这样的一座围城,有许多球星仍急着要闯进去,有许多球星却已经杀出围城,而更多的则是在婚姻的围城里苦苦挣扎。
This summer of 2005, European football blew the star of marriage, Crespo, Totti, Del Piero, Zambrotta, Owen and others have entered the marriage hall. They are holding hands of their beloved woman, happy face, but totally do not know they have entered the marriage siege. Watching so many stars who have to get together inside the maze of marriage, I do not know come David Beckham, Ronaldo and others think so. Over come people come to understand, but also have come on the last resort, and some are still sloshing inside the maze, but some have found the maze exit, anxious to flee, and some have played a “broken maze” game. To borrow Mr. Qian’s old metaphor: Marriage is like a siege, where people come up with ideas, while outsiders want to go in. In the name and interest are different from ordinary people’s star marriage is such a siege, there are many stars are still anxious to break into, there are many stars have been killed in the siege, but more in the siege of marriage Struggling