凡事从容、甘于平淡,才能容纳更多的人生体验,才能给自己和爱人更多的空间,生活之舟也才能平稳驶向彼岸。有个朋友曾与我谈起这样一件事:她的一个熟人因长相出众,结婚后身边仍不乏追求者。她的丈夫是个工作勤恳、待人忠厚的人,对她宠爱有加,带孩子、做家务什么都干。一开始她觉得很满足,可时间一长,她嫌日子过得太平淡,丈夫除了工作、家务事和业余看看书之外,别无情趣。她开始出去唱歌、跳舞、打麻将,并与 Everything calm, willing to dull, in order to accommodate more experience of life, to give themselves and their loved ones more space, boat of life can smooth the other side. A friend told me about such a thing: one of her acquaintances because of looks outstanding, there is no lack of suitors behind the marriage. Her husband is a hardworking, honest man, she favors her, with children, doing housework and doing everything. At first she felt very satisfied, but for a long time, she too faded life too light, the husband in addition to work, housework and amateur read a book, no delusional. She began to go out singing, dancing, playing mahjong, and with