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在外人眼中,他们是令人羡慕的一对。然而现实生活中,他们彼此间的相互抱怨,都把对方推到了一个崩溃的边缘,生活陷入了无限循环的死结……接到邱珊的电话时,她一上来就问了我一个相当有哲理的问题:“您觉得,男人和女人是不是天生就不一样?”这是常见的投石问路式的咨询开始,无论咨询师给出什么答案,都是不能满足来访者的。因为在他们的心中,早已把这个问题问了千百遍,各种答案都不符合他们的心意,所以才会一直把这个问题问下去。
In the eyes of outsiders, they are an enviable pair. However, in real life, they complained to each other, put each other pushed to the brink of collapse, life into an infinite loop of the knot ... ... Qiu Shan received a phone call, she came up and asked me a fairly philosophical The question: “Do you think men and women are not born the same?” This is a common consultation asked the beginning of counseling, no matter what the consultant gives answers, are unable to meet the visitors. Because in their hearts, they have already asked this question thousands of times, and the various answers do not meet their wishes, so they will always ask this question.