凡是有恋爱经验的孩子都以为自己很成熟了,可以享有成人世界里的快乐。事实上,他们的成熟只是身体上,在心智上,他们还是很幼稚的。他们有几个具备生活自理能力?他们能独自克服突如其来的困难吗?他们会照顾别人吗?他们是家长的心肝宝贝,他们一直被呵护被照顾,甚至到上大学,他们还不会洗袜子,那所谓的成熟又体现在哪里? Children who have experience in love think that they are very mature and can enjoy the happiness in the adult world. In fact, their maturity is only physically, mentally, they are still naive. Do they have the ability to live on their own? Can they overcome sudden difficulties on their own? Will they take care of others? They are parents’ hearts and minds. They have been cared for and taken care of, even went to college, and they would not wash their socks. Where is the so-called maturity?