讲述人:张妹芳,女,60岁我有两个儿子,大儿子在城里工作,二儿子在农村老家做生意。5年前,我随大儿子来到城里带孙女,当时老伴还没有退休,由于两地相隔六七百公里,一年只回老家一两次。老伴不在身边,经常感到孤独。虽然有时很希望和老伴过夫妻生活,但由于停经多年,加上老伴是个思想很传统的人,我不敢和老伴说,怕他笑话我。我很想回老家,又怕儿子儿媳忙不过来。前年老伴退休了,可家里也有 Narrator: Zhang Meifang, female, 60 years old I have two sons, the eldest son works in the city, the second son does business in rural hometown. Five years ago, I came to the city with my eldest son with her granddaughter. At that time, my husband had not yet retired. As the two places separated by six or seven hundred kilometers, they only returned to their home once or twice a year. My wife is not around, I often feel lonely. Although I sometimes wish to have a married couple living with my wife, I did not dare to say anything to my wife because he had a long period of menopause and his wife was a very traditional person. I really want to go back home, afraid of his son busy daughter-in-law come. Two years ago his wife retired, but also at home