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最近几年,越来越多的研究人员认为智商并不是衡量人类智慧水平的唯一标准,因为要想成功仅有一个绝顶聪明的头脑是不够的。成功与否的关键不取决于天资如何而取决于性格和情感因素。这种理论本身也许并不重要,但是,它具有很强的实用性。情感智商对于企业和机构制定录用人员标准或者对老师(家长)综合判断学生(子女)的能力有极大的参考价值。研究人员强调指出,智商与情感智商并不互相矛盾,无论是智慧还是性格都不能靠简单的打分来计算。一些人的智商和情感智商都很高,另一些人正好相反。现代科学面临的问题是如何将智商与情感智商这两者协调起来。实际上在决定成功的要素里面,智商只能起20％的作用,而其它则取决于社会阶层、财富状况、大脑神经元的发育情况等其它要素。对于情感智商来讲,至关重要的一点就是理解自己和对自己实际感受的满足程度。一个理智而富有感情的回答会达到更好的效果。理解自己是一种基本能力,这种能力使人在进行自我约束的时候也是为了表达自己的愿望,而不是压制个人的感情。
In recent years, more and more researchers think that IQ is not the only measure of the level of human intelligence, because it is not enough to succeed with only a very clever mind. The key to success does not depend on how talent depends on personality and emotional factors. This theory may not be important in and of itself, but it is highly practical. Emotional intelligence is of great value to enterprises and institutions in formulating standards for recruiting staff or for the ability of teachers (parents) to judge students (children) synthetically. The researchers emphasize that IQ and IQ do not contradict each other and that neither intelligence nor personality can be calculated by simple scoring. Some people have high levels of IQ and emotional intelligence, while others are the opposite. The problem facing modern science is how to reconcile IQ with emotional intelligence. In fact, in the decisive factor of success, IQ can only play a role of 20%, while others depend on other factors such as social class, wealth status, and the development of cerebral neurons. For emotional intelligence, it is crucial to understand yourself and your actual feelings of satisfaction. A sensible and emotional answer will achieve better results. Understanding oneself is a basic ability that enables one to express one’s own desires in self-restraint rather than suppress one’s feelings.