殡葬改革,是一场充满困难与挑战的社会风俗革命,它面对的是传承了几千年根深蒂固的丧葬习俗。正因如此,殡葬改革工作注定不会一帆风顺,特别是农村殡葬改革更是困难重重,步履维艰。在农村,由于人们对火葬有“惨不忍睹”的恐惧心理,有“死后化作一缕青烟随风而去”的失落感,没有“入土为安”让人的心理感受好,因此,在推行火葬过程中遇到很大的阻力,很多丧属“抗拒”火葬,偷着“埋人”,人死了丧属不愿声张,不敢哭泣,在夜深人静时偷着土葬,一旦被举报,就会被要求强行火化,并被处以罚款。所以,出现了一种现象:有的人“失踪”了半年多,人们才知道某某人已经死亡了。 Funeral reform is a social custom revolution full of difficulties and challenges. It faces the deep-rooted funeral customs inherited for thousands of years. Because of this, the work of funeral and interment will surely not be smooth and smooth. In particular, the reform of funeral and interment in rural areas is even more difficult and troublesome. In rural areas, people have no feeling of being “immersed themselves in the earth” because of the fear of being “appalling” to cremation and the sense of loss of “turning a smoke into smoke after the death.” Therefore, During the process of cremation, a great deal of resistance was encountered. Many of the bereaved families were “resist” cremation and stealing “buried people”. The deceased person was unwilling to cry and did not dare to cry. When he was buried in the dead of night, once he was reported, Will be required to force the cremation and be fined. So, there was a phenomenon: some people “disappeared” for more than six months, people only know that someone has died.