有位妈妈发来电子邮件:“在图书馆查找有关幼儿教育的书时,发现了1999年10月的《学前教育》。我觉得它的内容正是我要找的。” 这位家长有一个刚上幼儿园小班的女儿。她很想知道,幼儿园的教育是否真正适合自己的孩子。因为孩子从小跟着姥姥、姥爷,3岁时才回到父母身边上幼儿园,所以很不适应,“恐惧令她如惊弓之鸟,经常哭”,“现在虽然不反抗了,但一到幼儿园总是哼哼唧唧地哭”。另外,孩子对妈妈以外的人总有一种抵触心理,常常以一种敌视的态度对待他们,只是如影随形地跟着妈妈。和爸爸的关系也不那么亲密,老说“不要爸爸”,令做父亲的心灰。当然,爸爸有时也难免训她。 针对这位家长的担心和苦恼,我们在网上进行了一些交流。现在,我们特请北京市东城区教研中心的俞昌珈老师来和这位母亲聊一聊。俞老师在幼儿园任教几十年,做过园长,现从事教研工作。但愿俞老师的一席话,能给这位正为女儿的事“操心加担心”的妈妈一些宽慰,一些启示 One mom sent an e-mail: “When I looked up books about early childhood education in the library, I found out the” preschool education “in October 1999. I think its content was exactly what I was looking for.” The parent has a The daughter who just started kindergarten She wondered if kindergarten education really suited her children. Because childhood child followed her grandmother, grandpa, 3 years old before returning to their kindergarten parents, so it does not meet, “fear of frightening her, often crying,” “Although now do not resist, but always go to kindergarten hum Crying chirp. ” In addition, children always have a hostile attitude toward people other than their mothers, and often treat them with a hostile attitude, just following the example of their mother. Relationship with my father is not so close, the old saying “no father,” so that his father’s ashes. Of course, dad sometimes inevitably trained her. In response to the parents’ worries and distress, we conducted some online exchanges. Now, we especially ask Yu Changjia from Dongcheng District Teaching and Research Center in Beijing to talk to the mother. Yu teacher taught in kindergarten for decades, worked as head, is engaged in teaching and research work. I hope Yu’s remarks, to give this daughter is worried about the “worry about worrying” mother some relief, some inspiration