奶奶一生有两个忌讳:照相,过生日。她认为照相会吸走人的精气,过一次生日就会折寿半年。她将这一理念坚持了一辈子,于是,我们做晚辈的,都尽量顺着她,不为她庆生,也不为她照相。尽管我曾偷拍过她几次,但终因怕她知道了不悦,也一直没让她看。她低调对待生命,不想在这个世界上留下她的任何印记。奶奶很上相。她坐在屋檐下剥玉米,银白色的头发贴在脑后,身材瘦 Grandma has two taboo in her life: photography, birthday. She believes that photography will take away the essence of people, will be a birthday over half a year. She insisted on this concept for a lifetime, so, as a junior, we try to follow her, not for her birthday, nor for her photography. Although I had candidly photographed her several times, she finally did not let her watch her for fear she was unhappy. She low-key treatment of life, do not want to leave her in this world any mark. Grandma is upstairs. She peeled off corn under the eaves, her white hair behind her back, thin