良好的社会交际能力是一个人将来能更好地生活并融入社会的基础,对人的可持续发展具有极大的影响力。笔者经过观察发现:现今的幼儿有一个共性,他们大多反应敏锐、快捷,善于表达,不怯场,适应能力强,但仍有少数孩子存在个性不良的问题。他们有的自私、任性、占有欲强;有的胆小、孤僻、畏缩性强;有的在与小伙伴接触中极易显现出暴躁、抢夺、不良的强势等。所有这些对孩子的成长和发展极为不 Good social communication skills are the foundation for a person to live better and integrate into society in the future, and have a great influence on the sustainable development of mankind. The author found through observation that: Today’s children have a commonality, most of them react keenly, quickly, good at expressing themselves, not stage fright, adaptability, but there are still a few children with poor personality problems. Some of them are selfish, self-willed and possessive; some are cowardly, withdrawn and shy; some are easily exposed to temper, snatch, bad power, etc. in their contacts with small partners. All of these are extremely bad for children’s growth and development