一个孩子，仅仅受到父亲或母亲单方面的爱和教育是不够的。长时期仅仅受到母亲的爱和教育，男孩子容易女性化而阳刚气不足；长时期仅仅受到父亲的爱和教育，女孩子容易男性化而缺少女性的温柔细腻。家庭的教育，父母双方是阴阳契合的一个整体，缺一不可。这是因为它不仅给予孩 It is not enough for a child to be unilaterally loved and educated only by his father or mother. For a long time, it was only loved and educated by the mother. The boys were easily feminized and masculine. For a long time, they were only loved and educated by their fathers. The girls were easy to be masculine and lack the tender and delicate femininity. Family education, both parents are a yin and yang fit as a whole, are indispensable. This is because it gives not only to children