《锵锵三人行》做过一期节目叫《剩女太多,想不当第三者也难》,道尽了中国社会时下的男女比例失调症状,虽有戏谑意味,但也算言之有物。显然,“剩女”不是被制造的,而是“自造”的。不是一个女人自己造,而是整个女性群体合力制造。我们并不是鼓噪“剩女”都自甘孤寂,不谈爱情,不求第一但求倒数第一……只是人生确有太多荆棘丛生。把握住你可以把握的,而对你无法把握的,不勉强、不心急火燎。人生不过一件事,在她们自己掌握之中:怀着真实心灵的渴求走到底。我们不禁发问:“剩女”们,这一秒,你们究竟好不好?! “Qiang Qiang threesome” did a program called “too much left-over, third party is also difficult to think improperly”, Daogu the Chinese society nowadays the imbalance of men and women symptoms, although teasing means, but also count as something . Obviously, “left woman ” is not made, but “self-made ”. It is not a woman who made her own, but a group of women working together to make it. We are not encouraged “left women ” are self-satisfied loneliness, do not talk about love, not the first but the last but ... ... but life is indeed too many thorns. Grasp the things you can grasp, but you can not grasp, not reluctantly, not in a hurry. One thing in life, in their own possession: with the craving of the real soul go to the end. We can not help but ask: “left women ”, this second, you really good ?!