当一对青年男女情投意合,准备成立一个小家庭的时候,父母和家长无不衷心期待着这个社会的新的细胞的诞生,渴望着它充满向上的朝气、携手奋进的生机,祝愿它获得巩固、和谐和幸福。前不久,胡耀邦同志指出:家庭仍是我国社会的细胞,我们对婚姻家庭问题处理得好坏,直接影响我国社会的发展。对婚姻家庭问题,不但要用正确的法律去约束,还要靠正确的社会舆论去引导。这段话,不但适用于小家庭成立前后,而且对于父母帮助子女建立良好的新生活开端具有深刻的现实意义。小家庭成立前后是人生历程中的一个重要阶段,是生活结构的一次巨变。由于这个时期思想意识尚未臻于稳定,意志品质也尚待进一步锤炼、完善,因此,仍需社会和家长给予悉心的关注和引导。因为青年男女在婚前能否做好生理上、心理上、精神上以及物质上的初步谐调,婚后能否沿着正确的谐调的路,建立一个充满革命理想、富于生活情趣的小家庭,对青年夫妇的一生,对未来一代的成长都将产生巨大的影响。因此,我们希望:广大的读者和作者协助我们共同办好这个栏日。无论是过来人的成功经验或痛苦的教训,无论是正在经历这一阶段的青年朋友们的切身体会,无论是理论的、技术的指导,或者是有关这一主题的新的信息,新的知识和新的建议,我们都将竭诚欢迎。——编者 When a young man and a woman are ready to set up a small family, parents and parents heartily look forward to the birth of a new cell in this society, longing for its vitality that is full of upward mobility and the spirit of advancing forward hand in hand, and wish that it be consolidated and harmonious And happiness. Not long ago, Comrade Hu Yaobang pointed out: The family is still the cell of our society. Our handling of the issue of marriage and family has a direct impact on the development of our society. For the issue of marriage and family, we must not only use the correct laws to govern but also guide ourselves through correct public opinion. This passage not only applies to the small family before and after its establishment, but also has profound practical significance for parents to help their children establish a good new life. Before and after the establishment of a small family is an important stage in the course of life is a tremendous change in the structure of life. Since ideological consciousness has not yet reached a stable level in this period, the quality of the will remains to be further tempered and refined. Therefore, we must still give the community and parents careful attention and guidance. Because young men and women in the pre-marriage can make a good physical, psychological, spiritual and material preliminary harmony, the marriage can follow the correct path of harmony, the establishment of a full of revolutionary ideals, full of life fun small family, The life of a young couple will have a huge impact on the growth of the future generation. Therefore, we hope that the vast readers and authors will help us to jointly manage this column day. Whether it is the successful experiences or the painful lessons of the coming people, whether it is the personal experience of young friends who are going through this stage, whether theoretical or technical guidance, or new information, new knowledge and new ideas on this topic The new proposal, we will wholeheartedly welcome. --editor