为把孩子培养成拥有体谅他人之心的人,最重要的一点,就是父母自身要以体谅之心温和地对待孩子。同时,应充分理解孩子的心情,努力从孩子的视角来考虑问题。并且,夫妻俩还应阅读一些有关儿童心理成长的书,对孩子的心灵发育过程作 The most important point for nurturing children into people who have a heart for understanding is that parents themselves should treat their children with a considerate heart. At the same time, children should fully understand the mood, and strive to consider the issue from the child’s point of view. And, the couple should also read some books on the psychological development of children, the child’s spiritual development process