在我八九岁的时候,父亲给我的印象是一个不出手的懦夫,他不是英雄。那时候,我经常跟哥哥打架。每当我们兄弟俩发生冲突的时候,父亲就坐在一旁静静地看。他常常跟我和哥哥说到一句话:“打还是不打?主动权在自己手上。你必须学会选择。”我觉得父亲简直不可理喻。他是我们的父亲,他应该做些什么,而不是说些老掉牙的陈词滥调。然而,14岁时的一次经历使我对父亲的印象整个发生了转变。有一天,我和几个同学与父亲一道去看拳 When I was eight or nine years old, my father gave me the impression that an unscrupulous coward, he is not a hero. At that time, I often fight with my brother. Whenever we two brothers clashed, my father sat quietly watching. He often said to me and my brother: “Do not fight or fight? The initiative is in your own hands. You have to learn to choose.” "I think my father is almost unjustifiable. He is our father, what he should do, not to say clichés of old-fashioned. However, an experience at the age of 14 changed my whole impression of my father. One day, I went to the boxing class with several of my classmates and my father