多数人都认为,“性”是指两个人之间的性行为。在这样一个“两人世界”中,充满了赌博与期望、表演与评价、协商与难题。就像其他一切人际交往一样,在这个“两人世界”中,人们认为每个人的所做所为都必定会产生出某种结果。但是实际上“性”还有另外一层含义,一种与“两人世界”无关的表现形式,那就是性幻想、私下观看色情品以及自慰。 Most people think that “sex ” refers to the two people’s sexual behavior. In such a “two world ”, full of gambling and expectations, performance and evaluation, negotiation and problems. Like everything else in this world, in this “two worlds,” one assumes that what one does is sure to produce some sort of result. But in fact, “sex” has another meaning, a manifestation unrelated to “the two worlds,” which is sexual fantasies, private viewing porn and masturbation.