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婚姻生活中,夫妻常会因为一些不起眼的“小事”引起争执,有时会毁了性爱心情,甚至为婚姻危机埋下隐患。1.总是为相同的事而吵架。夫妻总是反复为同样的事情而争吵,就如同在原地踏步,不但不能解决任何问题,还会越吵越心烦,陷入死循环。专家分析:吵架和辩解的背后是恐惧感,因为夫妻双方内心深处都害怕被抛弃、被拒绝、被认为不合适。只有夫妻双方完全相互信任、无条件地爱对方,两人才会展示自己的缺点。找到引起冲突的导火索,努力加以改变,才会避免反复为同样的事而争吵不休。
Marital life, the couple often because of some humble “trivial matter ” dispute, sometimes ruining the love mood, and even laid the hidden dangers for the crisis of marriage. Always fight for the same thing Couples always quarrel over and over for the same thing, just as they are in place, not only can not solve any problems, but also the more noisy and the more upset they fall into an endless loop. Expert analysis: behind the quarrel and excuse is a sense of fear, because both husband and wife are deeply afraid to be abandoned, refused to be considered inappropriate. Only when the couple completely trust each other and unconditionally love each other can the two show their own shortcomings. Finding the fuse that causes the conflict and working hard to change it will avoid having to repeatedly argue for the same thing.