儿子的学习成绩好,做父母的自然高兴。可是,学习成绩是相对的,成绩优秀的学生通常只是一小部分,肯定有成绩不够理想甚至很差的孩子。假如你的孩子学习成绩不理想…… 一、不要随便说孩子的智力不行。成绩的好坏与智力有一定的关系,但成绩不好,并非都是智力低下造成的,完全有可能是非智力因素所致。在没有科学依据的情况下,随便说孩子的智力不行,特别是当孩子面说,这是很不好的。它会影响孩子的自信心,使他们悲观地认为自己就是笨,再努力也白搭。即使经过有关部门的科学鉴定,孩子的智商确实不高,也不要告诉他们。应该明白:智力平平的人也是可以 My son’s academic performance is good, parents naturally happy. However, the academic record is relative, excellent students usually only a small part, there are certainly unsatisfactory results even poor children. If your child’s academic performance is not ideal ... ... First, do not just say that the child’s intelligence does not work. There is a certain relationship between good and bad grades and intelligence, but poor grades, not all caused by mental retardation, is entirely possible non-intellectual factors. In the absence of scientific evidence, the child’s intelligence does not matter, especially when the child says it is not good. It affects children’s self-confidence, making them pessimistic to think that they are stupid, and then try hard. Even after the relevant departments of scientific identification, the child’s IQ is really not high, do not tell them. It should be understood: fair intellectuals are OK