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问:我知道,适当的压力可以激励孩子上进,但问题是,现在的孩子压力太大了。我儿子刚上初中,就整天忧心忡忡、愁眉不展。我着实心疼,想帮助孩子,却不知怎么做。宋海明答:1.认真倾听孩子的心声要想帮助孩子缓解压力,要先了解孩子有什么压力、压力从哪里来。所以,必须听听孩子的倾诉,抽出时间和孩子交谈,专心地看着孩子,认真地听他说话。只有父母肯把心交给孩子,孩子才肯把心交给父母。这样,你了解了孩子心理压力的真实情况,才能够有针对性地帮助他。
Q: I know that the appropriate pressure can motivate children to move forward, but the problem is that children are under too much pressure now. My son just attending junior high school, worried all day, frowning. I really distressed, want to help children, but I do not know how to do it. Song Haiming A: 1. Listen carefully to children’s voices To help children relieve stress, we must first understand the child what pressure, pressure from where. Therefore, we must listen to the child’s talk, take the time to talk with the child, concentrate on watching the child, listen carefully to him. Only parents willing to give their children, the child was willing to give the heart to their parents. In this way, you understand the true situation of children’s psychological pressure, can be targeted to help him.