面对挫折和失败,有的人失意彷徨,自暴自弃;有的人一蹶不振,踟蹰不前;也有的人掩过饰非,自认愚笨,从而跌入自卑的枯井中,不思进取,甘于平庸。我的一位同事,十几年前就报名参加了自学考试,直到年愈不惑,才拿到了大专毕业证书。其间,很多次考试都是不及格,面对别人的不解和冷嘲热 In the face of setbacks and failures, some people are frustrated and give up on themselves. Some are stagnant and sluggish. Others cover up non-fossils and stupidly fall into the inferiority complex. They are unscrupulous and mediocre. A colleague of mine, who enrolled in self-study examinations more than ten years ago, did not get any diploma until he got his diploma. In the meantime, many examinations failed, in the face of other people’s puzzled and ridiculed