十几岁的时候,师父骑着电动车带我去买佛会用的物品,我们在路上闲聊,我不知怎么就开口问:“师父,男女之间的爱是不是很不好?”师父一直把我当小孩子,笑笑说:“哪有什么不好的爱?爱都好。”“那我怎么听说,爱情这么痛苦……”“那是因为‘欲’太多了,把欲望施加在另外一个人身上,是小爱。想要爱情不痛苦,就把你的爱人当作众生一样平等对待,他和众生一样软弱,和众生一样会犯错。要大爱, When I was a teenager, Master took me on an electric car to buy articles for the Buddha’s congregation. We chatted on the road and I had somehow asked: ”Master, the love between men and women is not very good?“ Master has been treating me as a child, smiled and said: ”What’s wrong with love? Love is all right.“ ”How do I hear that love is so painful?" Too much, the desire to exert on another person, is a little love.If love does not hurt, put your love as equal beings and sentient beings, as weak as beings and as wrong as living beings. Love,