由于现在的社会是一个优胜劣汰的社会,家长认为只有考上名牌大学,孩子今后才能适应社会的要求,找到理想的工作,而不会被社会所淘汰。在这种思想意识的指导下,孩子便在父母的唠叨声中诚惶诚恐地学习。如果说家长只重视智育的发展,还情有可原的话,那么作为教书育人责任主要承担者 Since the present society is a society in which the survival of the fittest is eliminated, parents think that only when they are admitted to prestigious universities will their children be able to adapt themselves to the requirements of the community in the future to find the ideal job and will not be eliminated by society. Guided by this ideology, children learn with fear and anxiety in their parents’ chatter. If parents only attach importance to the development of intellectual education, but also extenuating, then as a major carrier of education and education responsibility