编辑同志:我和我的丈夫因为种种原因,不得不离了婚。一个孩子判给了我。我非常爱孩子,离婚后这种感情更加强烈。我对那些离了婚就不管孩子的人特别不理解。可我不知道今后我应该怎样爱这孩子?另外,我知道孩子的爸爸也是很爱他的,如果允许他们以后常联系,我又怕影响我们母子间的感情。因此,我希望贵刊能有一篇文章谈谈这个问题:离了婚的父母宄竟应该怎样对待孩子?怎样爱他,才能有利于他的成长? Comrade editor: My husband and I had to divorce for various reasons. A child gave me. I love children very much, after the divorce this feeling is more intense. I especially do not understand those who have divorced regardless of their children. But I do not know how I should love this child in the future? In addition, I know the child’s father is also very much in love with him, and if allowed to contact them often, I’m afraid affect the feelings between our mother and child. Therefore, I hope your article will have an article on this issue: what should a divorced parent do to a child and how to love him in order to benefit his growth?