随着居住方式和条件的改变与改善,及独生子女家庭的增多,幼儿之间的正常交往受到越来越多的限制,结果在不同程度上影响了幼儿身心的健康发展。因此,帮助孩子结交朋友,发展和扩大孩子的交际圈,成为父母面临的又一新问题。一、帮助孩子结交朋友父母不能为孩子选择或确定朋友,但可以帮助他结交朋友。与邻居的小朋友建立良好的关系无疑是非常重要的,而且随着幼儿年龄的增长,这种关系变得越来越不可少。有的幼儿专家甚至认为,如果仅仅从幼儿发展这方面考虑,假如自己的孩子不能与邻居的小朋友友好相处,宁愿搬家找个合适的小朋友,也不要使自己的孩子孤独起来。可能会有这种情况,家庭附近的孩子可能都比你的孩子大。比如,这些孩子可能都已上学,虽然你的孩子很想同他们一起玩,但由于共同语言较少,他们很难能玩在一起。那些大孩子可能会时常欺侮他,或支使他干这干那,或拒绝他提出的 With the change and improvement of living styles and conditions, and the increase of single-child families, the normal exchanges between young children are more and more restricted, and the results affect the healthy development of children’s physical and mental health in varying degrees. Therefore, to help children make friends, develop and expand the child’s social circle, as parents face another new problem. First, to help children make friends Parents can not choose or determine a friend for their children, but can help him make friends. It is undoubtedly important to establish a good relationship with the neighbors’ children, and as the age of young children grows, the relationship becomes more and more essential. Some nursery experts even think that if only considering the aspect of early childhood development, if their children can not get along well with the neighbors’ children, they would rather move to find a suitable little child and do not make their children lonely. This may be the case, the children near the family may be larger than your children. For example, these children may have been to school, although your children would love to play with them, but because of their common language, they are hard to play together. Those older children may often bully him or allow him to do that or reject him