我国民间有句谚语:“久病床前无孝子。”这句话概括了卧床老人和床前子女各自不同的处境和困难。确切地说应该从两个角度来理解其真正的涵义,但人们总是责备孝子不孝,这似乎有点不公平。因为老人一旦病倒在床上,要求子女长期侍候好、赡养好,这对今天在职在岗的人来说确实是个大难题。 There is a folk saying in my country: “There is no filial son in front of a long illness bed.” This sentence summarizes the different situations and difficulties of bed-ridden elders and their bed-ridden children. To be precise, the true meaning should be understood from two perspectives. However, people always blame filial piety for filial piety. This seems a little unfair. As elderly people fall sick in bed and require their children to serve well for long periods of time, they are indeed a big problem for those on duty today.