经常听到有人这样问孩子:“爸爸好,还是妈妈好?”其实,在孩子的成长过程中,父母亲同等重要,只是影响的侧重点不同而已。爸爸给孩子立规矩中国的《三字经》上说“养不教,父之过”;德国哲学家弗罗姆说:“父亲是孩子的导师之一,他指给孩子通向世界之路。父亲虽不能代表自然界,却代表着人类存在的另一极,那就是思想的世界、科学技术的世界、法律和秩序的世界、风纪的世界、阅历和冒险的世界。”再好的母亲也无法替代父亲的角 Often hear someone asking children: “In fact, in the process of children’s growth, parents are equally important, but the focus of influence is different. Dad said: ”Father is one of the children’s mentors, and he refers to the children to the world.“ The German philosopher From said: Although father can not represent nature but represents the other side of human existence, it is the world of thought, the world of science and technology, the world of law and order, the world of discipline, adventure and adventure. ” Mother can not replace father’s horn