人们常说,好孩子是夸出来的。可是,生活在赞美声中的孩子,要么骄傲自大,要么害怕挑战。父母怎么夸孩子,才能帮助他建立自尊和自信呢?当孩子或学生犯了错误,你会怎么做?批评、训斥,还是惩罚?让我们来看看教育家陶行知先生是怎么做的。担任育才学校校长期间,有一天,他看见操场上一个男生正要用砖头砸一个同学,便立即上前阻止,并要求男生放学后去校长室。了解事情的来龙去脉之后,陶校长掏出4块糖递给男生:“第一块,你按时到这里,而我却迟到了,我奖 People often say that good children are boastful. However, children living in the praise of the sound, either arrogant, or afraid of the challenge. How can parents help their children build self-esteem and self-confidence? What do you do when children or students make mistakes? Criticism, reprimand, or punishment? Let’s see how educator Tao Xingzhi did. As Yucai school principals, one day, he saw a boy on the playground is going to smash a classmate with a brick, he immediately stepped forward to stop and asked the boys to go to the principal’s office after school. Understand the ins and outs of things, President Tao took out four sugar handed to the boys: ”The first piece, you come here on time, but I was late, I Award