大学选择是人生重要抉择之一。其中父母的期望时常会与子女的打算发生冲突,在此当中,我们作为心理咨询人员,应在帮来询者认清自我的同时,增加其父母的思想沟通。我们还应注意不要去充当父母与子女冲突的仲裁人,而是当其调和人。这正是下列咨询案例说明的社会中一些问题。——题记 University choice is one of the important choices in life. Among them, parents ’expectations often conflict with their children’s plans. As a psychological counselor, as a counselor, we should help consultants to recognize themselves and increase their parents’ ideological communication. We should also be careful not to act as an arbiter between parents and children, but as a mediator. This is exactly the kind of social problem that the following consultation case illustrates. --Inscription