一天,一位法国母亲带着5岁的孩子上街,过马路时,活泼的孩子跑在前面。恰在这时,一辆小汽车突然飞速而来,虽然司机紧急刹车,没有撞着孩子,但是孩子还是吓得惊慌失措地倒在地上。这时,孩子的母亲急忙上前扶起孩子,司机也立即拉开车门走出来。司机感觉自己开车太快,惊吓了孩子,应该向孩子及其母亲道歉。然而,孩子的母亲却不但没有责备司机,反而严厉地责怪孩子:“过马路不看前后左右,太莽撞,是你自己的错。”然后责令孩子向司机道歉。最后,这位小朋友果真心服口服地向司机承认了自己的错误。在法国,曾经还发生过这样一件事:一位中国妇 One day, a French mother took her 5-year-old child to the street and the lively child ran in front. Just then, a car suddenly came quickly, although the driver emergency brake, did not hit the child, but the child was still scared panic on the ground. At this moment, the child’s mother hurried to pick up the child and the driver also immediately pulled out the door. The driver feels herself driving too fast, frightens the child, and apologizes to the child and his mother. However, instead of blaming the driver, the child’s mother harshly blames the child: “It is your own fault to cross the street without looking around, being too reckless,” and then ordering the child to apologize to the driver. In the end, the child truly and convincingly admitted his mistake to the driver. In France, there has been such a thing happened: a Chinese woman