《弟子规》作为传统文化中的瑰宝,对孩子的成长有着至关重要的作用。今天,我们就来谈一谈“闻过怒,闻誉乐;损友来,益友却;闻誉恐,闻过欣;直谅士,渐相亲”(《弟子规》)。这句话是说:听到别人说自己的过错就生气,听到别人称赞自己就高兴,久而久之,不好的朋友就会越来越多。反之,如果听到别人的称赞,就先自我反思,看自己有没有那些优点,听到别人的批评时,心里却高兴地接受,这样一来,就会有越来越多正直诚实的人乐于和我们亲近了。 As a gem in traditional culture, discipleship plays an important role in children’s growth. Today, we come to talk about “Smell anger, Wen Yu music; loss friends, but friends; smell fear fear, smell over; understanding, gradually” (“disciple rules”). This sentence is to say: to hear others say their fault is angry, to hear others praise themselves happy, over time, bad friends will be more and more. If, on the other hand, hears the compliment of others, he will first reflect on himself and see if he or she has any merits. When he hears the criticisms of others, he will gladly accept it, and as a result, more and more honest and honest people will be glad to Close to us.