“模范儿童”指父母用来在别人面前夸耀,提升父母在人前地位的好孩子。这些孩子必须在家庭期望中表现得完美无缺。他们要上最好的学校,必须每时每刻都保持良好的形象。这些孩子的父母多半都很自恋,他们并没有把孩子当成单独的个体,而只是看作他们自身的翻版。 “Model children ” refers to the good children the parents use to show off before others and enhance their position as human beings. These children must be perfect in their family’s expectations. They want to be in the best school, and they must keep a good image every moment. Most of these children’s parents are narcissistic, and they do not regard their children as separate entities, but rather as their own replicas.