几乎每个父母都有望子成龙的思想,尤其是独生子女家长。为了达到这个目的,他们往往尽自已最大的努力,千方百计给孩子创造受教育的环境和发展智力的条件,孩子要什么就给什么,有关发展幼儿智力的玩具、图书,更是多多益善,甚至不惜代价。可是,令人困惑的是,有时事与愿违。有位年轻的爸爸告诉我:孩子看到同伴买了小钢琴,也吵着要,买回来才两三天,使丢在墙旮旯里了。过了几天,看到人家有 Almost every parent has hopeful, especially one-child parents. In order to achieve this goal, they often try their best to make every effort to create an educated environment for their children and to develop conditions for intelligence. Children give what they want and toys and books for children’s intelligence development are even more beneficial and even at any cost . However, what is puzzling is that sometimes things are against their expectations. A young father told me: children saw their companions bought a piano, but also arguing that it was only two or three days to buy back, so lost in the wall. After a few days, I saw people there